A Nigerian lady, Anate Adeleke, has taken to Twitter to advise fellow women to stay in an abusive marriage where their financial needs are provided, rather than settling with a broke man.
She stated this on Sunday, August 13, after a Twitter user, John Doe narrated how a woman went ahead and married her abusive Yahoo boy fiancé against his advice. According to her, settling with a broke man will only ruin their lives because of his poverty thinking brain.
John Doe wrote:
“The day I made up mind not to advise any woman in this community was the day I shared a DM from a woman whose fiancé was so abusive and a yahoo boy. After all said and done, she still married the man. Any advise I give to women is just me doing it because of my God. End”
In response to this, Anate stated that it is better to be with a man who provides for you despite the abuse than to be with a poor man who has nothing to offer.
She wrote: “Dear Queens, It’s better to be in an abusive marriage where the man provides all your need, than settling with a broke man who will ruin your life with his poverty thinking brain.”