Nigerian man questions his girlfriend for always visiting her male bestie

A Nigerian man identified as Tobi has narrated how he and his girlfriend got into a quarrel because of her male bestie.

He said he questioned her decision to have a man as a friend when she already has a boyfriend and she accused him of being insecure.

Tobi explained that he started experiencing difficulty satisfying her in the bedroom, and though he did not catch her cheating with the bestie, he suspects something is happening because she visits him often.

According to him, they’ve been together for six months and he did all he could to match her energy in the bedroom but he could not keep up.

Tobi said she started to withdraw slowly and at some point, anytime he calls his babe she tells him that she paid a visit to the male bestie.

He wrote; “You already have a boyfriend, why do you need a male bestie?”

That was the innocent question I asked my babe, then she got angry and started throwing tantrums, telling me I’m “Insecure”. Yes Amanda, I’m insecure, and it’s because I’m madly in love with you.

I am not cool with this male bestie thingy. I love Amanda so much, I don’t want to share her with anyone. She’s an all-round package, physically, socially, spiritually & se**ally.

Yes se$$ually! It has been like that for the past 6 months. But recently, son of man can no longer match her energy, 2 rounds like this, I don tire!

I thought I was Starboy, I never knew I was Amoshine. 😭 She.. …noticed and complained. I tried explaining to her that my body is going through a process, so for now all I can offer is more of foreplay while we cuddle to sleep.

She said “cool” and we started doing all that. I never knew she wanted more. 😢

She started to withdraw slowly. If I call she’ll tell me she has gone to see her bestie. Talo ní bestie oshi… Abi àyè bestie yí fẹ́ bàjé ni?”