A Nigerian man took to social media to seek for help on how to tackle his wife’s attitude of requesting for money from her ex.
In a post she made on Nairaland, the man who regretted marrying the woman, revealed that although he is not able to meet all her financial needs, he feels wounded as a husband that his wife still takes from her ex.
Read his post:
I married my wife in Kaduna two years ago. During those period we were dating, we were very much apart due to distance. She stayed in Kaduna while I worked in Lagos.
During few times of my personal meeting before our wedding, I noticed huge communication between her and this man. I called her attention to it but she just waived it aside saying they are just friends as Ex (stuff). She joined me up in Lagos after the marriage but the communication between them still continued.
This is a woman I have sacrificed so much for in my life by providing her basics need with the children even though not huge like that. She told me the Ex is a Doctor and they have nice experience together while dating back then. I have adviced even begged her to stop this communication as it it very hurtful and insulting to my personality but she won’t stop. Instead she secretly calls and requests money from this guy in almost different occasions.
At a point in time in the past when she went to Kaduna to get her transfer from work place to Lagos, she still visit the guy even as she is heavily pregnant that time. I was able to get the idea through her bank account statement when the same guy send her money for what business I don’t understand. It is almost 2 years of our marriage now, I am starting to regret why I marry her initially even as I noticed much difference between us; she is from Southern Kaduna while am from Ibadan.
I wish I have married my tribe whom I can easily understand. Just yesterday night I see another 4k alert from the same guy to my wife. I am really pained though I have not confront her. See guys, I have 2 boys, twin, I take care of them, buy food and all.
Though my work is not going fine but I try my best to make her happy but it seems she is not built for me. I don’t really know what is going on again in my life as I am heartbroken.
Maybe the man is even in Lagos most times self. Many things are just running through my mind.