I never loved him – Lady changes mind about marrying man who trained her in school

A lady has revealed that a man trained her in school with the promise that they will get married but she no longer feels the need to honour the agreement.

She said he paid her school fees and hoped to have a big wedding and kids with her when she is done.

However, now that she is a working class lady, she does not see the need to marry him because he is not her type and she does not love him.

She wants to break up with him but her family warned that he may harm her, so she is scared of telling him that she is not interested anymore.

The lady wondered why she must be compelled to be with someone who helped her even though she does not want him.

In her words; ”Are we really forced to stay with men because they took us to school when our families couldn’t? He paid my fees when I was a student and now he wants a big wedding and children. i don’t even like him. Reality is I don’t enjoy doing anything with him. Sl***ing with him feels so forced. I’m on a pill because I don’t want his children.

I never loved him and don’t think I’ll ever do. I appreciate things he has done for me and my family when we had nothing. But I’m working now and he doesn’t have to do anything for us, I just want to leave. When I tell my family I want out they say he will hurt me and hurt them as well..

Am I supposed to stay where I’m not happy because of fear of death? Don’t people help out of their good hearts anymore? Isn’t that what God expects? I’m sure his soul mate is out there waiting for him, cause I know he’s not my type.”