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Toyin Lawani slam mothers who complain about their children’s looks

Toyin Lawani, has slammed mothers who are always complaining about their children’s physical attributes and health status.

Toyin Lawani slam mothers who complain about their children’s looks lailasnews


The CEO of Tiannah Empire Place, in a post shared on her Instagram page, said she wondered why mothers engage in such act. She wrote;

”If you don’t like the truth you will not like me, cause I always say things how they are , so you don’t like your kids legs ? You don’t like their eyes ? They are always sick and you are blaming it all on your man ??Well didnt it occur to you that your husbands head was big and his eyes are big before you married him?

I’m sure you saw all these qualities when you started dating him , didn’t you know your kids will inherit them ?‍?? most young parents nowadays are very nonchalant about a lot of things , you want to marry a man , did you Check his blood work ? So you can save your kids the several trips to the hospital and not cut their journey on earth short ? Pls we all need to stop being ignorant about some certain things so we won’t regret it in future , nuff said , I don’t appreciate kids who don’t appreciate their kids , you are a mother for God sake , Choose your path wisely.”

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If you don’t like the truth you will not like me, cause I always say things how they are , so you don’t like your kids legs ? You don’t like their eyes ? They are always sick and you are blaming it all on your man ?😡Well didnt it occur to you that your husbands head was big and his eyes are big before you married him? I’m sure you saw all these qualities when you started dating him , didn’t you know your kids will inherit them 🤷‍♀️ most young parents nowadays are very nonchalant about a lot of things , you want to marry a man , did you Check his blood work ? So you can save your kids the several trips to the hospital and not cut their journey on earth short ? Pls we all need to stop being ignorant about some certain things so we won’t regret it in future , nuff said , I don’t appreciate parents who don’t appreciate their kids , you are a mother for God sake , Choose your path wisely .

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319 Comments

  1. Abi? It’s really annoying abeg how u think u have the right to complain about a gift that God has given for free

  2. Exactly u nailed it.
    There are things to be looked out for before walking down the aisle with a life partner.
    We shouldn’t be blindfolded by love, whereby endangering the lives of our unborn children.

  3. True talk, what you choose you get. It takes two to tangle. Well, sometimes it happens that kids inherit something not seen physically n the husband and wife but present in the family history.

  4. Why complain about Gods gift can you create human being that is rubbish even you and your husband can be pretty and your kid will be ugly.

  5. Some women are fun of complaining all the time. The same child that some People have been looking for, for so many years despite there riches yet GOd is yet to answer them. This is the same child God give to some women and there still complaining about it. Women can never be satisfy.

  6. Yes oooo. Theirs eyes are blocked with love when they met each other.
    Parents should not blame about God’s gift.
    The best thing to do just like I read in the post is that couples should always go for blood check before marrying each other

  7. If Toyin is sure they are kids naturally
    There is no need complaining about their physique and health status
    Rather assist them in love and care
    That is what real mothers do

  8. So damn right mama, mother’s are great determinants of their kids characteristics by whom they choose to marry, so they should quit complaining as they chose and designed their own fate.

  9. In this era, most ladies rush into marriage just because most of her friend are married and for that anything on trousers goes. Just accept your mistakes and make the best out of it.

  10. It is very important to cheek all these things b4 jumping into marriage I hope and I ought mother to make their kids feel good no matter how the look they took their looks from u

  11. Yes she’s right, I love people who always say the truth, been married to a man that has big lips and expect her child not to have big lips , definitely he or she must inherit it from the father.

  12. They should ask themselves that question, and not the doctors. The doctor only helped them to conceive and has nothing to do with the looks of the baby.

  13. At least one should not just jump into marriage, a better understanding of the person you are marrying is very important

  14. Parents will not learn,the story of late Micheal Jackson and his father is a whole lot for parent to learn from please don’t critises you children while growing up.

  15. You actually nailed the correct point,those are some of the things to Know before going deep into any relationship to save you from terrible and future full of regrets

  16. Very correct…they won’t check all these before jumping into marriage ..later they will start complaining…the one that pains me most is the issue of sickle cell..couple will claim they are madly in love even after realising there blood groups ain’t compatible….why take such risk..why suffer your children..For Godsake ,God can never give us persons that our blood doesn’t match…isn’t that a clear evidence that you both are not made for each other??

  17. Children must not look like their mum or dad, but look like any member of the extented family

  18. Lol
    thumbs up
    I guess people have to look around really very God before opening there mouth to say just anything

  19. Well said dearie. Looks as they say is deceptive. Mothers should rather focus on building a positive inner quality of their kids

  20. Hereditary has made it to be so…even if the man is shapely okey likewise the lady..how about the generation before them please…?the child has no faults to be blame for all this,the look,shape,speaking mood,association and more but heredity has mass it all to him and they gad no choice but to accept….

  21. very true.those complains can be too annoying some times and is as if those couples didn’t court before entering into the University of marriage.

  22. Why is she complaining. Her kids looks like there father what is the big deal there. Before they got married didn’t she notice all this she’s just looking for trouble that is it

  23. True talk madam, some says everything with change when we marry can you change anyone. When you fall into it stop complaining women.

  24. Hahahahaha complaining about your children’s look is laughable because a if a child doesn’t look like his or her father,he or she will definitely look like the mother. I think its only a cheating wife who is not sure of her child’s paternity that will be uncomfortable with her child’s looks

  25. She is right about that…. Every thing is not just about love… There are something’s we need to consider before going deep in a relationship

  26. You are such a funny person. Actually I totally agreed with your point. Mothers should always appreciate their kids no matter how they look bcos they are the product of themselves and their husband

  27. It is all said. Thanks. Love has blindfolded many that they ignored the basics. Are those kids to be blamed for whatever or however they look? Singles had better wise up so they won’t regret the path they choose.

  28. This woman has said it all she is actually saying the truth, people dont look at their kids with passion

  29. No one should abuse her children,or other people’s children,because they’re the signs of God,
    It’s very awkward to do that

  30. Love is blind as they use to say even if she notice big head, tin leg on the man, love must have covered her eyes. A woman should not complain about all these in a child because she can’t create one

  31. I believe in heritance. Such child must have taken some of those physical traits from the mother that she’s complaining about.

  32. You are right most of the mothers are ignorant of that fact you shared above,some don’t even know their blood group not to talk of genotype appreciate your kids don’t compare and contrast

  33. That’s a matured advice..any mother complaining about her child’s physical appearance is not worthy to be a mum. .

  34. You don’t need to complain about your children because blood is ticker than water, stop complain about your children again, they are God gift.

  35. People should learn, that complaining about situations is not the way out. Let’s learn to thank God for the little we’ve got and watch Him do something excellent

  36. Wise talk, let those ladies know they don’t just marry for marriage sake but for the coming kids

  37. If you dont God to give you HIS choice then choice wisely. Check the physical attributes and be convinced by it. However, the star of the child matters most not physical attributes

  38. She his saying the truth because you see all the qualities in your husband before you married him, so bear it

  39. yeah, I agree with you, ladies before making a decision towards him, take a look at him physically to be sure you’re kids are going to be beautiful

  40. People like Toyin Lawani are just attention seeker. I think the way children dress reflect the impact of their mothers in their life . She’s wrong

  41. She has said it all, love your kids no matter what because they are gift from God, i can’t really imagine any parent saying they dislike their kids looks, because sheep will not born goat.

  42. Children Must Surely Take After Their Patents, Not Only Woman Is Doing This Even Man Too Does

  43. Even if you check your partner blood, anything can still happen, just be grateful for God gift in your life

  44. So correct. Mothers shouldn’t complain about their kid’s physical attributes. Children are gifts from God.

  45. Kids are so dear to heart.. How can a mother complain about her child’s physical appearance.. Are you God? We should learn to appreciate what we didn’t pay to receive from God..

  46. Very good advice to all parents not only mothers. They should love and appreciate their children no matter what because they are Gods gift

  47. I agree with you …..mothers have not rights to criticise their children’s physical attributes because they are not the ones who created themselves

  48. Hahahahahah, this lady u won’t kill me oo,, please ask them,, didn’t they notice those physical looks before getting married to the man, your children must surely take their parents looks

  49. This is a simple truth, that is the reason there is a room for courtship. In order to check all their statues

  50. We are wonderful and fearfully made, so no one has the right to complain about his/her child look.you are right

  51. She’s very right I wonder why some people do not appreciate what they have when others are going from one place to the other to look for just one . this is the same thing that happens to people with AS genotype they know very well that their partners are also of the same genotype they Still go ahead to marry knowing fully well that any of the children can be SS. People take unnecessary risk all in the name of love.

  52. your making sense, it’s a pieces of advise
    Some women are fun of complaining all the time. Women can never be satisfy.,

  53. Don’t mind them… Some people don’t even check Genotype or blood group before getting married… When issues arise they start blaming their spouse or the devil… Yeye pple… Tell them joor

  54. Yes verytrue because that where the genetic make up comes in.so we should be contented with our kids

  55. Toyin just said the truth. Parents should accept their children the way they are. They should think of ways to improve them and not bring them down

  56. She is very funny but she said the truth. To every smoke there must be a fire somewhere. Look before you leap.

  57. Mothers should stop complaining of their childrens appearance because this could lead to depression for the children

  58. Hahahahhahaahaa , no matter how funny this may sound, I think she’s right and is a reality today that so many mother’s complain a lot about the look of there children. But when you look at the parents you must see who the child got those features from. So when you want to marry look well to know if your husband looks good and fit too.hahahahahhaa

  59. Why didn’t she check herself well and look for a partner that will complement her rathan than complaining of their own Union product. After all it is God who create and gives children. She should be grateful self because many are out there looking for the one that is with her now self to cherish

  60. That’s what some mother do that I detest most
    Why should a matured mother be saying some bad talk against her children

  61. Hello sis, are u God? Pls ooo, how many living creature hav u made sinz u came to this world. If no, den stop all that nonsense talk. Abgiiiii……

  62. I concur with what toyin said, sometimes it really annoys me when i see the way some mother’s render all kinds of abuses to their child because of the way he or she looks, which is very bad

  63. It a good talk but Why should a matured mother be saying same bad talk against her children but god know more than us

  64. Kids are blessing from God to you parents. some parents don’t know the pain of being childless that is y they insult the one God gave to them freely

  65. this is so funny, slam mother complaining about indecent dressing, did she lay a good dressing? she supposes to know what the children see is what they will do, like mother like children. never complain slam mama

  66. True facts, children are meant to take after their children in looks and characters, so a woman isn’t supposed to complain about her children looks, she should love them as they are

  67. Indeed children are naturally meant to look like their parents, every woman must learn to understand that

  68. She is not totally right… because some children neither take the physical attribute of mother or father but Grand parents.

  69. Thats the actual fact she said…..Your children will definitely take after u or hubby…. So check well before u marry to avoid stories that touch

  70. Tell them o, they are so blinded by the feeling of love and they forget to do all the necessary things required of them.

  71. She is quite funny but right. But I need to ask that who will now get married to those with big heads and big eyes? Are they not human beings who will eventually get married to those with big heads and big eyes?

  72. Nice information, many take something’s for granted before marriage. You have to access the person physically and medically to know if the both of you are fit for each other.

  73. We should learn to appreciate our children no matter what. Cos some don’t have the opportunity of having them.
    Learn to be grateful no matter what!

  74. Pls women learn to appreciate the hand work of God.. Why are u complaining are you they maker. Be thankful for the type of children u have. Because some are dying to have them in that way.

  75. You just nailed it
    You have said it all…
    They saw all these attributes before marrying the man.. So why complaining
    It annoying sometimes

  76. That’s true, sometimes we do get blinded by love went ahead and marry a man with canda lips without knowing that our children might inherit it.we should be careful because of the future of our children

  77. Our parents should learn to appreciate their children no matter what. If they are ignored, they might commit suicide

  78. Humans are neva satisfied…think of 9 month the child was in ur belly, the pains nd discomfort..u still dey complain

  79. Lol. She’s absolutely correct here. Many parents yab their children about how they look and its affecting the children. They should learn to cover and defend the children’s deformities.

  80. You are very correct. If these mothers were that particular about their children’s looks Then why did they marry someone who had such obvious flaws? They should have carried out due diligence before they got married.

  81. You are right the problem we are facing today is from parents, some of them is not giving good advice to their own children

  82. Lawani is right jooor. Physical attributes should not be the main focus of a mother. What is more important is discovering the God-giving talents hidden in a child

  83. I 100% agreed with what the CEP of Tiannah Empire place said, she said it all. Appreciate what you have. Moreover, the children take the physical look of your husband. So stop the complain

  84. I love Toyin Lawani’s line of thoughts on this matter. Is really abnormal for mothers to complain about their children’s physical appearance or their looks and any other thing. Parents should learn to appreciate the children God has graciously given to them no matter what because those children didn’t create themselves.

  85. This is the same child God give to some women and there still complaining about it. Women can never be satisfy

  86. You are right, parents is the problem we are facing they should learn how to advice their children.

  87. This is really the truth. Some people are blinded by love that they don’t go that extra mile to know what qualities their partners posses before getting married to them.
    The deed has been done, so stop regretting and face reality

  88. True word. Some will even know their status yet they will lie to their parents about it and get married all in the name of I love him/her and can’t imagine life without him/her.
    When the kids start falling I’ll they expect everyone to be nice to them.

  89. Yes your right certain things ought to be taken into consideration before people go into marriage for those yet to be married don’t let societal pressure push u into marriage you will regret

  90. Truth is bitter my dear that is what we mothers always complain but that they don’t like it foes not mean the will not appreciatie it when they are okey

  91. You’ve said it all. Most women get marry because of greed and when they don’t get what they expect, they began to nag and compare their husband with their eqaul.

  92. I see a lot of mother’s insult their children calling them names making such children lose their self esteem

  93. I strongly agree with you Toyin Lawani. In addition, both men and women should check blood status as it is very paramount to journey in life as regards offspring

  94. A good mother will never complain about how the child look.No matter what,you should appreciate God in the child life.

  95. U don’t need to complain. That’s the gift of God to u. They will turn out to be a blessing to you tomorrow

  96. I don’t even think it make sense as a parent to be complaining about a child or children you have birth to ….they are your bllod and flesh….so you cant complain….in a sinple language they ard you

  97. Mothers that complain about their child’s look are probably misinformed science wise. Because as long as that child was conceived in u, u have a part to play in the look of the child. A huge part

  98. This is insult on God creation, they should learn to appreciate God creation. The children are created by God.

  99. That’s just the bitter truth, many because of love put the future of their children in danger, by so doing they will start complaining about children that God gave to them free of charge. God help us.

  100. We should all be contented with what GOd gives us, in the beginning, HE said come let’s make man in our own image, so we are all image of GOD

  101. Wat she said is absolutely the truth. Yea for d fact it is said dat love is blind dat doesn’t mean u should nt look very well.. U child has big eye nd four corner shaped kind of head nd u were like chai which kind of head dis pikin carry. Madam abeg u don check ur husband after u received ur sight. Plsss let stop complaining we can’t create anyone. Somebody said if God allow us to create our self we will be veryyy ugly

  102. That’s real truth about some mothers they too complain. Pls always appreciate what God gives you

  103. Auntie Toyin thank u.. Moreover, these children didn’t create themselves… That’s how they will grow up with inferiority complex and body shaming…

  104. My sister I agree with u full time. Children are gifts from the almighty God. Please let’s appreciate them whether

  105. Contentment is the key word here, some are craving to have children and those having them are busy complaining.

  106. Good talk and total truth
    Ladies should know that their decision when choosing that partner has a role to play in determining the outcome of everything especially their kid’s look

  107. Exactly u nailed it.
    There are things to be looked out for before walking down the aisle with a life partner.
    We shouldn’t be blindfolded by love, whereby endangering the lives of our unborn children.

  108. She’s right it’s really annoying. My mum nags a lot about my height but she forgets so easily that she married a short man.

  109. She is right about that…. Every thing is not just about love… There are something’s we need to consider before tying the knots with anybody

  110. Imagine that,what nonsense, why will she complain, if she don’t like their look they can go for surgery

  111. She won’t get or carter for her own children… She will be there slamming other mothers… People looking for attention

  112. Parents should appreciate their beauty of their children no matter what. They didn’t create themselves they are not God. Parent should take good care of their Children.

  113. She did not design her children herself so if their is anything how to make them better should be introduced.

  114. What is happening for Christ sake a mother herself complaining of her daughters looks? Indeed this is end time

  115. Dats true. They shldnt complain about their children’s physical look. Rather they shld talk to God about it

  116. Children are gifts from God and should be treated as such and not castigated. Come to think of it a child looks either like the father or mother or relative. So who are they really yabbing-themselves

  117. She is absolutely correct. Most of these young couple these days they don’t care to find out anything about their partners before getting married they just want to marriage like that….

  118. They should ask themselves that question, and not the doctors. The doctor only helped them to conceive and has nothing to do with the looks of the baby.

  119. Tell them my dear, if they will listen, our youths now are concerned about money sex drugs etc leaving the very vital issues

  120. Good 1! You nailed it..let them hear..som people with unnecessary talk..i bliv they will hear and be wise.

  121. na a for some mothers o. at times i wonder what really make them up as a mother because of some bad attitude they possesses

  122. Bitter truth,she is on point,is very good to look well before u leap to avoid unnecessary complain in future

  123. That is the fact if your man has some kind attributes or traits you don’t like to see in your kids…. Better quits the relationship instead of complaining later. Chose wisely!

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