Nigerian relationship expert, Joro Olumofin who encouraged ladies to dictate the terms of their happiness and not to be cajoled into losing focus when they hear, has dropped a post on why the value of men has gone up.
According to Joro Olumofin, men are now aware that women need them to feel accomplished, because women attach marriage to their success and happiness. He wrote on Instagram;
Things have changed, the Value of men has gone up. This is only because a lot of ladies have attached marriage to their success and happiness in Life.
Men are now fully aware that most ladies need them to feel accomplished. A lot of ladies have their fixed wedding dates & Aso ebi colors without boyfriends.
Men now use the M $ R words (Marriage & Ring) to manipulate and control women into sex and making downgrading compromises.
Ladies, Dictate the terms of your happiness, don’t lose focus when you hear the word Marriage.
This is coming few days after Joro Olumofin also told women not to marry unless they earn 150K. The love doctor who thrives on Instagram with his relationships-and-marriage-centered platform, believed that it was linked to the possible achievement of security and sanity in a marriage.
He wrote on his Instagram page;
“If you’re a single lady and you’re not earning at least N150,000 a month you shouldn’t be thinking about marriage yet. This is for your own security & sanity in marriage.
“Based on hundreds of mails I receive daily from posters. I’ve noticed a trend in behavior: Commitment before finances. Most ladies go into marriage with the hopes that the man will take care of everything.”
“Some even see marriage as their way out of responsibilities such as paying bills, etc.
“A lot of married women are unhappy in their homes but can’t leave because they are not independent, some don’t even have transport money to go back to their parents house. Secure the bag first.”