Stop comparing me with your mother’s standards – Dorcas Fapson

Dorcas Fapson who seems to be fed up with the stereotype tag on her, has warned Nigerians to stop comparing her with their mother’s standards.

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The Nollywood actress who was enmeshed in a controversy with a Taxify driver few months ago, stated that not everyone sleeps with older or married men to live the good life. Dorcas Fapson wrote via her insta-story;

Not everyone has to sleep with older/married men to enjoy life. Stop comparing me to your mother’s standards

This is coming few months after the actress was offered £10,000 to act in a porn movie, which she wasn’t impressed with. Dorcas Fapson had also revealed that she never planned leaving the US to act in Nigeria.

On how she stumbled upon acting, she said;

I always say I fell into Nigeria and it must have been all part of God’s plan because I had no plans of moving to Nigeria or even working here.

I had moved to New York from London, where I lived and still shuttle between, to pursue acting, and my agent at the time in London told me about an audition for a new television series. It was for an international audition; so, I did a self-tape to show my talent. A few days later, I got a call from the director, Biyi Bandele, who told me that he loved my audition and they wanted to fly me out to Nigeria to film. The series is called Shuga and the rest is history.

121 Comments

  1. Destiny might have brought you here so cherish it with the whole of you, indeed one must not sleep with older men to get high or riches life itself no one likes comparison

  2. Noted! Is your life my pretty lady! Be careful because God is also watching.. enjoy your career .

  3. Life is all about choice.stop interfering in someone lifestyle because it can bring insults of all sauce of manner.as for her saying sleeping with older and married is good that very bad because I believe it is written in the bible and it have its own returns in bad ways.

  4. SO what’s your point? I don’t get the relationship between the mother standard and acting in Nigeria . please all these celebrities will just be looking for what to say

  5. Babe live your life to the fullest don’t let anyone come and pour sand knife your garri. Let them continue running their mouth. You just been enjoying yourself. You’re not living your life to please anyone.

  6. Well she have her life oh, she should make money anyhow and from anything she want. People gat to leave her alone

  7. Baby his your life, how you want to leave it is not our business. I wish you all the best in life

  8. Destiny might have brought you here so cherish it with the whole of you, indeed one must not sleep with older men to get high or riches life itself no one likes comparison

  9. Everyone has a right of opinion and speaking out on their feelings, Dorcas should be strong as this is one of the prices to pay for stardom

  10. No one can tell you how to live ur life, some people said life is a game but i don’t believe it so my dear do not allow any body to detect ur life be who u are, God is ur strength

  11. I see this as insult to Nigerian women, just because you asked to act in a porn movie, all Nigerian mothers now sleep with marrid men,why not just say no,and live your life the way you want.

  12. Hmm..I know where this could be coming from. Well, its her life and she’s an adult to lead whatever life she desires.

  13. I guess she is very right comparing her mother with her life is wrong we all have different way of life and ways we all do things .

  14. Comment*
    everyone has his/her own life to live, stop judging her…after all u way dey call her name who know u?

  15. No one wants you here too if you are not proud of Nigeria and please remembere its your life and no one else’s, so do whatever pleases you, who cares.

  16. If nobody talks about you, then you’re nobody. It’s okay for people to say whatever they like but it’s better you mind your business and do your thing.

  17. Life is a choice one can life it the way he or she wants but remember that we neef people to live this life of ours.

  18. Live your life dear , nah them get their mouth . If you succede , they will tell you that you’re sleeping around

  19. You don’t have to control your life and control someone else… Life is all about choice.stop interfering in someone lifestyle because it can bring insults of all sauce of manner.as for her saying sleeping with older and married is good that very bad because I believe it is written in the bible and it have its own returns in bad ways.

  20. Well you have to disregard all say and done from people and live your life the way it pleases your destiny

  21. I’m trying to understand the mother comparism, if she wants to live a life her there.. no one is holding her not to

  22. I can hardly make sense out this post. Sincerely. The post appears not to be conclusive on the matter being discussed.

  23. Maybe needs stop comparing people with each other,you don’t expect everyone to be the same..we all have the choice to make plans on our own concerning our life And we decide for what we want and what we don’t want.

  24. Is not a good thing to compare people no matter what, we are different people and we do things differently.

  25. Stop listening to what people are saying about you in the act of comparing you to their mothers…and live your live…

  26. My dear just stand your ground. If they don’t like you the way you are they should go and jam transformer!

  27. She has a sense of morality.. I love her character and understanding of life.if other celebrities could have such character,we would have had a better world.

  28. Take it easy dear
    ..Nigerians like to compare people and situations… Live your life the way it pleases you

  29. Everybody have his or her own standard, you don’t leave for others, you leave for yourself, so don’t allow anybody set a standard for you

  30. Pls no body should compared her again she have her life to live. But babe remember your youth in the days of your creator

  31. Lol
    What’s their mother’s standard you’re talking bout here?
    Well be yourself and avoid too harsh words
    Celebrities live different lives
    Make and live your life just right
    And nice thing the porn thing wasn’t taken as an option

  32. Babe it’s your life ok, no one battles with your life with you, enjoy yourself, you alone knows yourself

  33. You Aldo do not have to respond to what everyone says. You can’t please everyone, so do what seems right to you.

  34. It is very wrong to compare your wife with your mother, its two different entities entirely.Very very bad I repeated.

  35. Live your life the way you want but always remember that your life truly belongs to God and you were created to please him

  36. Yes you are right,do what you think is right and leave the rest for God,Cos if you start following peoples mind,you will never move forward

  37. You are right don’t mind them some of them that goes around sleeping with married men they don’t know anything they don’t have value for themselves.

  38. Listening to other people negativity thoughts about you can draw one back.. Just pay a deaf ear and move forward…life is too sweet to have time for haters

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