A married man has taken his time out to share practical tips to help men stay faithful in their relationship or marriage.
Tomiwa Immanuel took to his social media page to share with men practical tips he believes will help men stay faithful in their marriage or relationship while also advising them to respect their women and ensure that they marry their spec as love is not everything, men also need to put in the work.
Brothers, if you are in a relationship or married, this thread is for you.
It’s a practical tip on how to stay faithful and stay out of trouble.
They say men are moved by what we see.
Another fact is that the TL/IG is loaded with pictures of very attractive ladies and it’s almost like clockwork; you see her pictures, you ‘fav’ them, you open her profile, next thing you’re in her DM, being plain stupid.
Maybe she rejects you and makes fun of you on the TL. You’ll now cast and bring shame upon someone’s daughter unnecessarily. “Girl, isn’t that your boyfriend/husband always being thirsty on girls’ pictures upandann?” Ew. God forbid.
This thing is actually really bad. Guys, please respect your woman. If you think another girl’s picture is fine, at most, just like the picture and keep it moving.
Don’t be in the comments putting ‘👅’ emoji like a homeless dog.
Or maybe the fine girl gree for you.
Before you know it, you’ve cheated on your partner and you’re begging for forgiveness.
She may forgive you, but you’d have hurt her in a way that she’d never forget and she simply won’t trust you the same.
So what do you do when you see a fine girl’s picture and it seems your brain is scrambling?
Follow these steps:
1. Go to your photo gallery.
Create a folder of your woman’s photos. Curate them with diligence and make sure these are the photos that most blow your mind and leave you in awe of her beauty.
[if you’re married, this folder can include some inappropriate photos…wink wink.]
2. Name this folder well.
Think of the pet names you call her that make her smile or blush.
The name of the folder/photo album should be sweet enough to burst your brain even before opening the folder, regardless of the fact that the pictures aren’t even new.
Go to this folder and scroll/swipe patiently.
Look at your woman.
Appreciate her features.
Appreciate her character.
Gaze upon her smile.
Remind yourself that she is more than enough for you.
If you truly love her, this will work like magic EVERY TIME.
Don’t forget: Love is not a feeling, it’s a combination of feelings, duty and commitment.
Put in the work so that your feelings won’t have to carry all the load…if not, they’ll burn out.
Side note: MARRY YOUR SPEC!
Be honest with yourself and make sure you are very with someone you are actually attracted to.
I’m not encouraging you to be solely minded about physical attributes, but whoever tells you it’s not important is deceiving you.
It’s easier to ignore food outside when you love what you eat at home [another wink for my MARRIED brothers].
Eyyss. Unmarried nigglets, you do not understand what I just said IJN.
Men are moved by what they see yeah? Well then bombard your eyes and mind with images of your woman and stay over the moon for her and her alone.
Hype her pictures. Send her DMs as if you’re just setting p. Message her incessantly.
Let your eyes be focused.