Pastor discovers his children are not his, after DNA tests

A Pastor is considering divorcing his wife upon discovering that ‘his children’ don’t belong to him, after DNA tests were being conducted on them.

In his narration, the man revealed that he had an accident years ago before meeting his wife and he was told it would only take a miracle for him to father a child.

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Pastor discovers his children are not his, after DNA tests


Surprisingly, years into their marriage, his wife gave birth to their 1st child and then the 2nd and then the 3rd. But after DNA tests were done on the three children, it was revealed that they belong to another man, though his wife is not aware of this.

Read his story:

I have been married for 14years, we have 3kids (all boys) but none of them belongs to me. I know this for a fact but my wife does not know I know. Let me explain.

5years before I met my wife, I was involved in a car accident together with two of my friends. We were traveling and our car skidded off the road. I was the only survivor of that accident.

l spent about 11months at the hospital and that left me with a condition that says I can’t have children.

i gave my life to Jesus Christ and become a committed Christian after the accident.

In summary, I became a pastor in a local church in my community 5years later, I met my wife in the process. I didn’t tell her about my condition because I was hopeful that God will heal me. 6years of our marriage my got pregnant and had our first child.

To be sure, I secretly went for a DNA and it was clear I wasn’t the father. I repeated the test for all 3children and they are all not mine. I have been living with this situation for the past 8years and I am beginning to get irritated by both the children and my wife.

My Wife pretends to be a good wife. She goes around preaching to women in the church about the need to remain faithful to their partners but she has had 3children by another man or men l don’t know. I want to confront her, but l am confused as how to go about the situation

l am just angry and irritated by everyone in my house lately. I feel like a total stranger in my own home.

what should I do?

14 Comments

  1. Shut up your mouth and treat those guys as yours, adopt a child and take care of all of them together incase your boys original dad show up to claim them before your death at old age. I suggest you dont confront your wife until you are about joining your ancestors. Wait, did u tell ur wife u were impotent before getting married? If not, you have only reaped what you’ve sown

  2. I advice the Pastor to forgive his wife, and take the Children. If the Pastor loves his own soul, he should not divorce his wife and marry another one.That is adultery which he knows as a Bible believer.. People adopt Children and they become their own children.
    The wife has to confess her sins and show her husband the man or men she committed the adultery with.

  3. Comment*
    You were unfaithful to her by not telling her the truth of your condition. It was a deceit in your own part. Leave with it and make yourself happy otherwise untimely death is awaiting you. Maybe your wife also know your condition but didn’t confront you with that.

  4. As a man of god, you are supposed to be a father to all including those boys cos they are a gift from god. While not excusing adultery, please make sure that they really are not yours cos their are instances where a woman who have slept with other men b4 marriage still retain the DNA of such men in their bodies, such that even when they conceive, those DNA still reflect on their children. But you MUST DISCUSS the matter with her FRANKLY to know their actual father!!! If she confessed to it, well the decision to divorce her is yours and nobody have the right to dispute you, but give her a chance to fair hearing. Then contact the father of the kids and mandate him before the law to take responsibility of his children or hands off for life!

    • Comment*lie. so the DNA of a man you slept with earlier will now be the DNA of your own child

      • Yes my dear the recent research from one of the University in England shows that A WOMAN WHO SLEPT WITH 20 Men can have their blood in her cell forever. That means anything can happen during pregnancy. Even Jesus told a sameritan woman that she have had 5 husbands in the past and yet none is her husband in the real sense of it. John 4v17-18. That tells you something was traceable to her body system which was discovered by Jesus Christ as abnormal. It’s possible but the man himself should have told his wife even before marriage that he was told he’s impotent man for her to decide to remains without sex or etc

  5. In everything we give glory to God. I thank God both you and your wife are a children of God and both of you are raising godly children. Though you and your wife lived life of deceit in time past but now you know all. Tell your wife, both of you should now repent genuinely, ask for forgiveness from God and forget the past. Love and train up your half or full children, they bear your name. Since your wife is under your wedlock, no one can claim your children.

  6. You are also a cheat. Why didn’t you tell her. Oh oh u think she is a fool like you. She covered you up and here you are boasting about divorce. Go ahead sterile man. Tell the whole world. Who will loose. You or her? Think twice Mr. Looser

  7. Quite unfortunate, but fortunate for him. He should keep his head low and assume nothing happened. He will shut himself on the legs if those kids discover he is not their biological father. I guess the woman, if you like call her evil did what she did for their family protection. It’s worse if she is dating men around not just for the purpose of having kids. Look, there are several families where the man is healthy and richly fertile, yet he is not the father of his children. It’s very common,though condemnable before maan and God.

    The woman was wrong not agreeing with his husband on means of having children but rather capitalized on the husband’s ill health to continue her relationship with her former boyfriend before marriage most likely. Mtcheew God help us.

  8. Mr pastor I would like you to first of all pray to God forgiveness. You called yourself a pastor and you’re living a deceitful life. Are you not supposed to be naked and not be ashamed?, That’s in your finances, sickness , health, when the going is good and when is bad. You married a for that long and you can’t open up to her? You are wicked. Secondly forgive yourself and then forgive your wife although she is a disgrace to woman hood but for this reason the sonof God paid the price three days ago on the shameful cross of Calvary. After that confront her . Thank you.

  9. As a pastor, pray and fast over it and ask ĢOD to direct you the right way for HE knows the best.

  10. Comment*People who are throwing abusive words here are not template. You are supposed to counsel or advice him soberly. Beloved Pastor. The surest person to run to now is God. He has the best counsel OK. Go to Him in repentance. For sure testimony is coming out of this. RUN TO GOD NOW

  11. You should hv made ur condition known to ur wife instead of believing in God without her consent. If u had made it known to her earlier, it will now be her choice whether to journey with u or not, instead of making it a secret.
    If u had made it known to her before wedding and she also agreed to marry u God would hv healed u.
    I pray that God will forgive u, u are responsible for ur wife’s infidelity.

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