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My girlfriend starves me of sex and behaves childish – Nigerian man says

A Nigerian man has taken to a popular Nigerian forum to lament on how his girlfriend has always been acting childish and not giving him the attention that he seeks.

In his post, he mentioned that the girl claims to love him and cannot afford to lose him, but she doesn’t show any sign that the love is existence between them.

My girlfriend starves me of sex and behaves childish - Nigerian man says lailasnews
My girlfriend starves me of sex and behaves childish – Nigerian man says


He wrote:

The reason for this write up is for me to get advice on what to do before I go the wrong way, my girlfriend is behaving childish and strange because I showed her all the love I can show.

She has being hurting my feelings so many times and she said she loves me and don’t want to loose me, when I confronted her, she complained that she is too busy that is why even on Saturdays too.

She always picks up quarrel with me and also starves me of sex. I really need advice on what to do.

Thanks a lot.

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221 Comments

  1. The best person to advice you in relationship issues is still you cos people don’t usually tell the whole story when they come out to talk about issues in their relationship, so have decided never to get involved in anyone’s relationship issue.

  2. You have to let go of what isn’t good enough for you we have ladies out there that would be better than her happiness is a choice

    • You are the one st fault cause sex is not the reason for a relationship you are not a good boyfriend that’s why you keep disturbing her for sex ladies say no to sex before marriage unless you are married then you can have sex with your partner any time any day as you wish.

    • Girlfriend and you should stop complaining because you need to marry before you make sex with your girlfriend

  3. You have to let go of what isn’t good enough for you we have ladies out there that would be better than her happiness is a choice

  4. The essence of been in a relationship is love and caring, I see she doesn’t care about you emotion, well, you neither quit the relationship or give her more time if only she truly loves you.

  5. Go and marry her maybe that is what she is telling you, you know some people might have decided not to have sex before marriage so you also respect her decision.

  6. I we advice you to look for another person.. Because u dont know maybe she is already in relationship with someone else, so look for another person and make a your second option

  7. My dear love is not all about sex, she might love you like she said but waiting for the right time to show you herself, sex outside marriage is a sin maybe that is what she is trying to avoid.

  8. Girlfriend you say what happened to pre- marital sex? Then is sex the evidence of love? I feel you must be childish yourself, biko set your priorities right and you will see there wont be a complaints

  9. She is your girlfriend not your wife so you have to marry her so you could gain access to whatever you need

  10. Some people don’t like sex that much. And maybe you’re extremely sex hungry always. Try and bend for Her and she’ll Bend for you too

  11. Bro she is not your wife… So no sex, I support her I’d just a relationship not a contract… Did she not tell you no sex first

  12. Keep your relationship healthy and abstain from sex if you are not legally married, you can talk out things with your girl friend and live happily

  13. Are you suppose to have sex with your girl friend or with your wife. Go and marry is you need sex

  14. She may not understand how it sex is, you will sit her and explain how sex is sweet in relationship or find a romantic films for her and watch together, I think she will learn from it

  15. she is your girlfriend not your wife so she have every right not to allow you to have sex with her because guys of now adays it is chop n go they do….if u really love her wait till she is ready

  16. If you guys are not married yet then go and perform the necessary right she will give you the attention you need.

  17. Truth is, if we ask her, she’ll also say things you do that she didn’t like. So you guys need to sit down and talk it out.

  18. Relationship is an avenue to get to know each other very well and if you feel she is not the girl for you then take a walk and end it.

  19. u are complaining as if u are married to her. just leave her go get another girl dat will do u well

  20. My brother sex is not everything if u really love her get married to and you will have the right to have sex with her

  21. bros your relationship can’t last longer, you need to free her and let her be, she was just pretending as if she like you, don’t waist your time on her.

  22. The essence of been in a relationship is love and caring, I see she doesn’t care about you emotion, well, you neither quit the relationship or give her more time if only she truly loves you. You’re funny bro, my advice for you is to look for another girl, she his playing my game on you

  23. Young man, why can’t you get married an enjoy a marital life than wasting your life time in girlfriend

  24. But sex is not really the major key to a strong relationship.some descent girls preferes it after marriage

  25. Give her a break
    In my opinion, she doesn’t love you, if she do, I don’t see reasons why he should starve you of sex

  26. U haven’t married her and u are demanding 4 sex already, pls u don’t love her u just want 2 take advantage of her and if u are wise marry dat gal cos she must be responsible

  27. My advice to you is that you should check within yourself and ask yourself a question do u i still love this lady? If yes can hold on for her alittle more she might come back to herself.

  28. Mr man I really know what is really your stress…is all about the sex…..but you can still hold on and work on something vital….like calling her attention and sit talk to know what else to do emotionally than sex….thanks.

  29. hahahahahahaha my guy my guy so you won die because of sex abi. nor be small thing o only God will help you o but remember every thing is not sex o

  30. You assume your girlfriend doesn’t love only because she’s not throwing herself cheaply at your feet, please grow up, she’s just your girlfriend and not your wife, wait rill you put the ring on it and stop complaining.

  31. In relationship you know what you want from your partner..if she don’t have why can’t you allow her to go on her own..n find your type…she might love u,quiet right but she might not capable of handle your need.. Choose wisely…no pity in relationship because is your life.

  32. What advice do you need again if she really loves you it should show in her actions and not the other way round

  33. Talk to yourself and advise yourself, you are old enough to decide, you should know what is good for you

  34. Just called her and express your feelings to her what you feels that makes you on happy about your relationship with her.whith maturef mind and she will understand.and I believe she will correct her self

  35. You hard what you call her your self, your girlfriend…. She is still your girlfriend not your wife so dont ask her for sex

  36. To give a better advice it’ll be easier only if her own side of the story is given
    The questions I could ask are
    Is she a virgin?
    Or
    Is being busy her only excuse
    If the 1st is the case stick to her
    But if the second is the case
    She is fooling you and probably is getting it out there
    Buy you must still be careful even when she tells you she’s a Virgin
    I once dated a girl who starved me of sex for too long on the account she’s a virgin
    She loves me
    And wouldn’t want to loose me
    And she’s scared she’ll loose me if I get what I want
    After much reassurance she gave in
    Only for me to discover it was all lies

  37. Oga ur girlfriend doesn’t owe u sex. Like u said, “girlfriend” not “wife”. U have no right to complain abt sex when u aren’t married to her. Get that pls

  38. So do you Need a babalawo to tell you they lady doesn’t love you…. Please find a peace of mind for yourself

  39. So your definition of love is sex . Did you even stop to ask yourself why she acting that way . The mighy have fallen out of love with you . Your problems requires you and your girlfriend to have a serious talk

  40. So your definition of love is sex . Did you even stop to ask yourself why she acting that way . The mighy have fallen out of love with you . Your problems requires you and your girlfriend to have a serious talk with each other

  41. If is only sex she starves u of, then she might still love you…because sex isnt relationship..but if she is disrespectful in her other characters, then you should quit the relatonship

  42. Sex isn’t love. That she refuses sex doesn’t mean she doesn’t love you. Stick to your girlfriend.

  43. Sex is not love for your information, someone who hates you might succumb just to accomplish her selfish desire. Amateur boy use your tongue to count your teeth.

  44. Sex is not love, you can’t guarantee love with sex,,, if you love her endure and find out her reasons,, she is a lady your gf not your wife

  45. She is ur girlfriend and she loves maybe she a kind of a girl that does not have sex before,maybe she a kind of a girls that have sex after marriage,so pls u don’t breakup with her,u will have to wait for her till u get married to each other pls

  46. No body can be too busy for the one he/she love. If she isn’t given you any attention at all then let go of her. You will find all that you want of a relationship in someone else out there

  47. By the time she sees this your post she will come to her senses and know you are serious… Just relax and wait.

  48. No body can be too busy for the one he/she love. If she isn’t given you any attention at all then let go of her.

  49. That’s very unfair, she starves you of sex and then when you start cheating on her, she will be like my husband is wicked, just do away with her

  50. Patience is the key dear. But come to think of it was there an agreement reached at the beginning of the relationship?

  51. Maybe she doesn’t like sex or she’s probably not ready…some girls are scared of sex because sometimes the man leaves after that or she is not that into u

  52. Man what matters is your happiness if the pain is much more than the happiness I guess you need to walk out

  53. Forget the sex issue cos not all girls like sex before marriage. Starving u of sex doesn’t mean she doesn’t love you. If she truly loves you, she will not be picking quarrels with you. D decisions is still urs wether or not to continue with her.

  54. Any girl that wanna give you emotional trauma, let her go. If she’s yours she will come back, but if she didn’t, she was never yours.

  55. Crazy for you man. If she starved you of sex she is right. I think sex is meant for those who are married. You have say when you are married.

  56. Premarital sexual relationship is wrong so don’t see it as if it’s ur right.when u married u can now start complaining

  57. I think she’s in love with someone else, so my advice to you is to quit the relationship and look for another girl

  58. Are sure you treating her good? Remember sex Is Not all about love! MeanWhile sit her down and talk sence into her, She will Understand

  59. Don’t complain because you don’t have right over her body, you can only own her body when you marry her. So go and pay her bride price.

  60. She might be scared of committing herself to a relationship with her whole heart, communicate with her and show her more love

  61. If she is not satisfying you enough my advice for you is that you should find another person that will satisfy your libido.

  62. Point of correction, she’s not your wife but girlfriend. So you have no right to say she’s starving you of sex because is not a priority in this kind of relationship OK. Is a sin before God. You only complain of sex when she’s your wife. But on the side of not having your time, call her and have a heart to heart talk with her to know why and try to reason if her excuse is true or false OK. Communication is very effective in any relationship.

  63. My brother, is sex now the only way she can show her love to you? And if the is hungry-ing you, why not marry her, then she give you as many times as you want

  64. I think the best advice to him is to try to talk more sense into his girlfriend’s head or better still involved some friends and family to talk to her on his behave

  65. It’s not bad that she’s doing what she think is the best way to get something tangible in the relationship. She may be insecure as you are not yet a her confirmed husband. Most guys run away from relationships after taken their partners to bed, and I think she’s trying to protect herself from the needful. If you thing you still want that from her, then it’s time to take her to the alter. Peace.

  66. I don’t see the reason why a person should be complaining abt sex when he/she is not properly married. She owes u nothing Mr

  67. May be she is nor ready yet for it, just still give her more time , if u truely love her and want to keep her, unless you can’t endure anymore, but sex is not love

  68. You said your girlfriend? Not even your wife,you are not serious, if you want sex from her go and do the needful things then you can have her as you wish,,nonsense.

  69. If you really want her and you really love her, why not get married to her maybe she won’t deny you sex because you have done the needful.

  70. If you really want her and you really love her, why not get married to her maybe she won’t deny you sex because you have done the needful. This is the advice I can give.

  71. You are a stupid and selfish man you want to use her and dump her . If you need sex go and pay her bride price and marry her as your wife.

  72. Some people don’t like sex that much. And maybe you’re extremely sex hungry always. Try and bend for Her and she’ll Bend for you too

  73. This is no issue for me since they are still friends and not married. Don’t expect sex since you are not married.

  74. This is no issue for me since they are still friends and not married. Don’t expect sex since you are not married. Period.

  75. Hmm is it only about the sex or she doesn’t have your time? Share the full story then we can advice

  76. to me I don’t think you need any advice rather than caution yourself if sex is the only thing that bind a relationships? remember she’s not your wife yet..

  77. My dear, nobody can advise u better than talking things out with ur girlfriend. Try to know y she doing dat to u. 3rd party in relationships are not always right.

  78. look for another person.. Because u dont know maybe she is already in relationship with someone else, so look for another person

  79. She is your girlfriend and you said she starves you with sex. Yes she is right because you are not legally married

  80. You can end rhe relationship since your not comfortable with what she’s doing….. Or if you love her you can as well get married to her maybe by then she will change

  81. Bro u said gf.. Are you suppose to be having sex with someone you are not yet married too?
    That’s fornication.. My brother better change

  82. Just pretend you don’t care about it again like for a month and you will see changes in her. I will look as if you don’t like her again and she will come back begging you. That is girls for you

  83. You have advise yourself, because you that is leaving with her,if you dont like what she is doing, you can leave her and move on,you cannot leave in an unhappy relationship

  84. Call yourself and tell her what you want and she will tell you what she want too but instead of having issues on matter that don’t worth it.

  85. Starves u of sex….is her body ur birth right??
    V u paid bride price?

    Baba calm down and reevaluate ur life…no let sex put u for trouble, nothing dey dere

  86. You have to let go of what isn’t good enough for you we have ladies out there that would be better than her happiness is a choice

  87. She is just your girlfriend not your wife,and you are complaining of sex,why don’t you make her your wife and you will see,she will change.

  88. These are some tiny reasons why someone should study his/her partner before getting into marriage thank God you have not marry her,my advice is try and understand each other.

  89. Too me sex in a relationship does not really matters unless you are both married legally, but if it is just boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, it is optional, so brother if she is denying you sex like you said, try asking her the reason for her intention, then you take it from there..

  90. Relationship is not all about sex there are other ingredients which spices up the relationship
    You should know what she likes and dislike in the relationship so that you can deal with it.

  91. Try to understand her reasons why she doesn’t want to sleep with you, if it’s genuine marry her and enjoy everything at large.

  92. Firstly, I think you should check yourself if there is anything you doing that she doesn’t like. If there is none, call and talk to her in a matured manner then if there isn’t any changes yet then maybe you guys aren’t just meant to be!

  93. Brother the truth is sex is everything in a relationship, all that matter is love,having time to discuss things that matter in your day to day running

  94. Maybe you go and marry her so that you can own her and have sex with her whenever you like.Shevis only a girlfriend not a wife.

  95. My brother maybe she is expecting marriage from you…..so if you want her to give you sex as your right marry her properly instead of complaining

  96. Sex is not life.you can do without sex.but still try to find out more of her let it not be what Iam thinking.

  97. This is going to be very hard but let face reality she cheating and just been loyal for nothing thinking she loves you

  98. Both of you are yet to get married and you are complaining about being starved of sex as if it is your right.You can only claim it as a right if you have put a band on it insteading of doing unauthorized overdraft!

  99. Oga u did not marry her and u are looking for sex. Shame no even catch u to come open ur dirty mouth here. Nonsense. U better go and hug a transformer or something similar. Go and marry if u want sex so badly.
    Aunt Girlfriend good job. carry on jare

  100. She deny of sex cos she is scared of getting unwanted pregnancy n beside if u wait for her patiently till u guys get married is not a crime relationship is not all abt sex is all abt care, love n trust

  101. Go and get married and stop committing fornication…relationship that will lead to marriage is not all about sex….she have reason for behaving the way she is behaving now.

  102. So sex is now love, she is not giving you sex and the summary is that she doesn’t love you, men are so funny.

  103. She is not your wife yet so you cannot blame her for starving you of sex but try and talk to her to know her reasons

  104. If his story is true.. Then it’s clear that the girl didn’t live him..
    If u can’t give him sex. Make him feel very special

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