Ladies share their stories of rejection after professing love to guys

A social media user started a conversation on ladies facing rejection from guys who they try to date or shoot their shots at.

In a twitter thread, a user @Moe asked ladies to share their stories of rejection after they expressed their love to guys.

Ladies share their stories of rejection after professing love to guys

I’m going on a break but it just occurred to me to do this. Ladies, please share your stories of rejection from a guy you shot your shoot at. Until we as women begin to normalise rejection, we will forever be reluctant to go after what we really want. I’ll start.

So there was this guy I liked, we went out a few times and in my head we had a connection. Anyway one day, after what I thought was a great evening, I go “can I kiss you?” And he goes “oh shit. I’m so sorry if I gave the wrong impression, I just really like talking to you.”

At that point I wasn’t sure what to do. So I just told him goodnight and left

Some people are sending me DMs on this. I’ll respond to as many as I can but I’m not going to share them here. The tweet was clear for a reason. To bring rejection out in the open and start to normalise it. So if you have stories, please share em here yourself.

See stories shared by others

@TomieLagos – There was this guy I liked, requested to see him and he obliged, he started taking me out to events, being lovey dovey in public, I was sure I had gotten to my final bustop. He said he couldn’t date me cos I was light skinned. I prayed and cried for weeks, blocked and unblocked

@Callmeruinah – lol where do I start

1. shot the shot; no response for 14days 😩

2. another one; nigga played hard to get rejected the initial bullet i sent him; i got pissed ghosted for 5months came back with more money in my pocket and he agreed 😅

@AmaraNOkolo – Told a man I loved him and he told me I stressed his life so that ship sailed a long time ago. Hung up on me. Another said there’s no future in it.
One laughed and said, “if only you were lightskinned”. Gathered my L and decided to save my shots. To Jesus be my glory tbh.

@Dearluchii – Met this dude on Facebook Liked him Sent him a message dreamt abt him
I was sexually attractedto him Asked him if he would consider having sex with me.
he said I’m not the type of girl that he messes with. he stops picking my call…

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