I have been dating 3 guys for 2 years now, but sleep with 1 – Lady says

A Nigerian relationship expert has taken to Facebook to make a shocking post she received from one of her readers who needed counseling.

The relationship expert identified as Oby Omalicha Chuka posted the mail she received from a certain lady who claimed that she has been dating three guys for over 2 years now but sleeps with only one of them.

According to her, the two other guys who she does not have sex with, are now separately asking her questions about marriage which is making her confused over whom to choose.

Oby Omalicha Chuka shared the post to get the reactions and advises of her other readers on her Facebook counseling page.

I have been dating 3 guys for 2 years now, but sleeps with 1 - Lady says lailasnews 2

Below is what she wrote;

I have never been this confused in my entire life, kindly read to the end and advice me sincerely. Please don’t tell me to pray or go for deliverance, I know that already, I just need practical advice. I am 28 years old, I have been dating these 3 guys for 2 years plus, I am not an ashawo cos I don’t even sleep with 2, I only sleep with one. I just don’t want to put all my eggs in one basket cos you never know who would turn out to be an asshole.

So everything has been OK until recently, as if they planned it, the 2 guys that I do not sleep with started asking questions about my people, how they do marriage rites, if I would like to marry them and so many questions suggesting that a proposal is probably on their minds.

And the way this is going, if I don’t make up my mind soon, I will not be able to say yes or no if any of them proposes, I like them differently for different reasons. Please help me to decide, what really matters most in marriage, should I test them with one of my girlfriends to see who really loves me? What do I do please? No insults please I will be reading comments.

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