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I had my baby from 1-night stand with stranger – Married woman cries out

A married woman is currently in dilemma after she decided to have a 1-night stand outside of her marriage, with a total stranger. And now she is pregnant with the stranger’s baby despite not being able to conceive with her husband for 5 years.

The obviously disturbed woman sent in her story to a relationship expert Ndijeka Nwapa-Ibuaka and wanted to know if it was okay to inform her fling, since her husband seems not to be interested in the marriage anymore.

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I had my baby from 1-night stand with stranger – Married woman cries out


Read her story below:

Dear NjiGirl,

Please, let me know what I can do in this situation. I have been married for five years and tried to conceive but nothing has worked. I met a young handsome guy in the mall and we hit it off. The day we made love, I took in and I am now six months gone. My husband refused to do anything for my unborn and throughout the pregnancy.

We separated for a while but once I had the baby, he came back saying he can’t live without me. I took him back on condition he would love my child. He did but only for a short while. He started looking for every chance to quarrel. I can’t take it anymore. I am about to move out.

My baby’s father is married so I never told him about the child. I feel like I should let my baby’s father and his family know about my baby, who is now one year old. What should I do?

5 Comments

  1. Well, I don’t see why you should involve his family, just understand and accept that you might have to raise the child alone. Tell your baby daddy but be ready to stand alone if he says he want no part of it, because you should have told him about the pregnancy to know his stance about it.He should have been involved in deciding the fate of the pregnancy. Forcing a child on a man, a married man at that, is just pointless and fruitless and stressful. What ever the case maybe, chin up, you’ll be fine at the end of the day.

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