Etinosa accuses ex-husband of rape on first date, laments over fresh threat

Etinosa has accused her ex-husband of rape on first date, as she lamented over a fresh threat which was captured in the comment section of her post.

Etinosa accuses ex-husband of rape on first date, laments over fresh threat lailasnews


We reported earlier that the Nollywood actress who took to her Instagram page to spill a lot of secrets on the man, revealed that he not only abused her while they were married, but his mother. According to her, her ex-husband’s mother claimed that her son was cursed.

In a new post on Instagram, Etinosa who accused her ex-husband of rape on first date, stated that she is no longer afraid of the bully who she married after the rape incident. She wrote;

Now he sends his friend Lt Adedamola Adeleke.
FEAR is your strongest weapon. I am no longer afraid.
FEAR and Victim SHAMING are an abusers strongest weapons. I have no shame anymore. For someone that has been locked out of the house wearing nothing but her underwear in the middle of the night. No Dami, No I don’t have shame. No shame, No childhood, No FEAR you guys took that all away from me.

Should I talk about why I made that video about rape last year??? Because what I said ladies should do was exactly what I did. I closed my eyes and told myself I wanted it. When I made that video I was battling with memories and I used the only coping mechanism I know COMEDY. But Nigerians did not know. I could not come out and say it was my experience because how would I explain to Nigerians that I married a man who raped me on the first date. SHAME and FEAR. DAMMI LEAVE ME ALONE. YOU CAN’T BULLY ME ANYMORE

Etinosa accuses ex-husband of rape on first date, laments over fresh threat lailasnews

258 Comments

  1. He raped you and you married him. Clap for yourself, you have sense. Rubbish… Abeg if you have divorced him, stay divorced and let the rest of the world have peace

  2. But why is everything coming up now? He beats his mother, raped her on their first date, threatens her life, etc. I only wish all this ends well, I mean justice should be met

  3. I’m just wondering how you possibly accepted to marry someone that raped you. Anyways, you can always charge it to the court when you get yourself a good lawyer

  4. Rape is a crime
    And it’s punishment is under the law
    When someone raped you report the person and watch how the law will punish him
    Sharing it on social media won’t help you dear

  5. He raped you and you married him. Clap for yourself, you have sense. Rubbish… Abeg if you have divorced him, stay divorced and let the rest of the world have peace in abundance ooo!! My sister!! You are totally confused!! You need cold water to help relaxe your soul

  6. Rape is a serous offence but since you are married to him there’s nothing else you can do now. I pray you enjoy your marriage.

  7. I can’t help but wonder as I’m sure others are also wondering – he raped her on their first date , yet she still married him , but I also know that life is not just black or white , we have grey and different shades of grey at that, so I can’t judge her. If they divorced or separated, he should let her be and stop threatening her. Kudos to her for overcoming her fear because bullies act on your fear and shame.

  8. How can you say that your husband raped you after marriage, but then you never said it, until because you’ve divorced him, sharp woman.

  9. All these funny stuffs celebrities accuse each other of.. If he’s a rapist or a potential one, why did u marry him?

  10. This is bulshit people should learn how best to deal with separation, running to the media to write or talk rubbish is wrong. The question is What if you guys come back together?

  11. There’s freedom for everyone so do not blame her cos she know what she is facing under the same roof with the man

  12. Any act of violence from your partner sends a signal you should quit that relationship if change doesn’t come into play

  13. But how will you marry someone that raped you on first date? Don’t you know that he will be a woman beater?

  14. There’s freedom for everyone so do not blame her cos she know what she is facing under the same roof with the man. Divorce may be the best option for her.

  15. Bloody liar hw can he raped u nd u marry all dis is bcos he broke up wit u so u want to put him in trouble

  16. Celebrating life is somehow, but nothing more since rape had involved I think they should marry each other then.

  17. Rape is an offence against the law,what I didn’t even understand is she called him ex…and yet she got rape,does it mean the incident happen before their divorce or after divorce…

  18. You are the cause of what has happened to you. A man raped you and you still went ahead to marry him, what were you expecting, a blissful marriage?

  19. Why marry a man who raped you on a first date? You should have trashed it out with him from that first date. His attitude would have sent you a signal of danger. Things some people do in the name of love

  20. Raping is really a bad thing. I don’t think a lady should futher a relationship with a man who raped her though some find it more comfortable to stick to the person that already has a canal knowledge of them. Still let each person (Etinosa and her ex) remain on their own and stop publicising their already past life. I think extra attention should also be given to the threats from the ex-husband.

  21. May be she want to cause problem to her ex-husband new family. She doesn’t want to see them living joyfully

  22. Tell me he likes it hot not rape because their is no way he will rape you and you still went on with the wedding process

  23. So you claim that he rape you and you still went ahead and marry him come oo who do u think you are deceiving

  24. You married him after raped you. Will i called that love or stupidity or maybe you enjoyed because i don’t see a reason why you should married a man who did such to you. What ever made you go into marriage with such a man is best known to you

  25. You married someone that rape you how on earth do you want us to believe that. Why didn’t tell the whole world what he did to you then because rape is an offense

  26. Dis celebrity’s won’t cease to amaze me. A guy raped u on your first date and u went ahead to marry him. What den were you expecting after the marriage.

  27. Na wa ooo what kind of fear would av made u get married to d man who rape.. Na jazz abeg dat kind sound somehw for hear

  28. Rape is a very serious crime but I don’t see why you should continue with a man who raped you on the first date

  29. This her story have no head…. How can u say ur ex raped u on ur first date and you still went ahead and got married to him…. Later he started abusing u and your mum so u remembered what he did and u made a video of it….. Plz madam goan sit down very far from us…. You are confused

  30. We are just hearing it bt hw can u convince us dat yes dis man really rape u, am nt sure u have prove base on what u said oooo

  31. Why did you have to marry him him eventually after raping on your first date. I am sorry to say this, you chose to marry a monster. Thank God you are out of the clouds now.

  32. Can you listen to yourself he rap you on first date and you still went ahead to marry him are you that desperate or what,face your problems by yourself

  33. The both of u have separate, pls as a woman respect urself a little because another may come for marriage.

  34. Abeg I no understand where is this woman from he rape you and you still marry him you are evil

  35. Why are you now saying it now when you and your husband is not together again, you a disgrace to other woman.

  36. I love women who take up their stands at a particular point in time to say no to abusive marriage and move on. My woman, Etinosa, is one of them. I love her courage

  37. For Christ sake family issue like this are not suppose to be shared on social media how can you own husband rape you

  38. Please don’t blame her because she married him after he raped her, it could have been anyone. Thank God she actually had the courage to speak up

  39. I don’t understand how a man could rape u and u ended up marrying him?? Anyways I don’t understand what happened but it’s a good thing u realized and left the marriage… Better to be alive and tell your story than to be late

  40. Rape is a great offense, you shouldn’t have gotten married to a man that raped you on your first date. I pray everything end with joy o

  41. Didn’t he show signs of any of these before you married him? Now you are separated and you are bring all of this up. Medicine after death, if you ask me.

  42. Please say something else, he raped you and you still married him. Am sure you know you ain’t telling this story to little children. We are too matured to buy this talk of yours.

  43. Why will you get married to someone that rape you??You married him then because you loved him,now there is no more love,you are saying he raped you on first date.You guys should divorce and let us rest.

  44. I think she should have reported the issue earlier but since the case is tragic she should still go ahead and report to the appropriate authority

  45. Many rape cases are always almost carried out by people close to us..I fear your pain dear..it is well.

  46. We all know that rape is a punishable offence and who ever partook in such act should be punished…now av been thinking, he raped you, you kept quiet till now, what where you thinking after he raped you, why didn’t you report him to the police then? My sister you don’t have any say please…go get your self busy with something else and leave that young man alone please.

  47. I wonder why some women always carry their family problems to social media. He raped you why don’t you scream for people to see is true

  48. Women should be careful in the type of relationship they engaged in and the type of men involved to avoid sexual and domestic harassment

  49. This story is not straight forward he rapid you on the first date and you did not report him immediately when went ahead and marry him you see what it have result to

  50. If truly he raped you and you still married him,then share this online. Your marriage is at stake and about to break dear. Watch it

  51. I really don’t believe the rape story . Someone that raped you on first date and you later got married to him . This actually confusing why marry him again . Why can’t she report the case to the police . This is so confusing

  52. OMG!!! Can you hear what you are saying yourself rape on the first date and you went ahead to married him… Wonder shall never end

  53. He raped you on your first date, and you still married him noe that you divorce him your are now voicing out

  54. Hmm,ladies should be extra more careful on the type of guy you keep as a friend, so that you won’t end up been a victim by rapist.

  55. Some people are just stupid of themselves, imagine the long run all the way of dating, marriage and divorce… Stupidity is really growing

  56. Hmmmmm I like your strength woman, you really fighting but many don’t understand. Ur reputation n image are at stake still u let it out. God is your strength darlyn

  57. Relief Matter…. Hmmmm… But I am just wondering how you agreed to marry someone that raped you on your first date… I think something is missing somewhere

  58. I don’t understand why she has to marry someone that raped her on a first date, may be he has something he is holding against her

  59. I think that fear of her husband must have made her stay despite being raped by him on the first date. No one knows what led them to get married in the first place . We shouldn’t judge what we do not understand or experience.

  60. Was the marriage forced on her? I see a reason to complain at the instance of the rape.why marry and allow more damage

  61. I’m just wondering how you possibly accepted to marry someone that raped you. Anyways, you can always charge it to the court when you get yourself a good lawyer

  62. Look at this idiot, he raped you on the first date and you still go ahead to marry him. You now came out here after you people have divorced and start talking about rape? Ogun kill you there idiot

  63. What’s I oppose the word rape u mentioned, since you are dating each other that’s not a rape nah u both has fun each other anyway is only God that can judge ur issue

  64. Etinosa, a man raped you on your first date and you went ahead to marry him only to start complaining now. Oh! You expected him to change after marriage? Shame

  65. My dear what were you thinking, to marry a man that rape you on the first date, or do you think he will change or you can change him, what ever is your reason, life doesn’t have duplicate, please walk away from that bondage.

  66. Some comments got me wondering if the person saying it has read it, somebody raped you on your first date and you still got married to him so what do you expect?

  67. Rape is a serious crime.why not report him immediately.? You still went ahead to marry him.meaning you enjoyed it…or you didn’t know you were raped initially? Did you just find out you were raped by him? Chai! Many question I wish you can answer us…stories here and there…i am lost oh…fill me in my dear.

  68. Ur husband can’t rape u, rather say that two of enjoyed having sex on the first date.

  69. He raped you and you married him. Clap for yourself, you have sense. Rubbish… Abeg if you have divorced him, stay divorced and let the rest of the world have peace

  70. In my option or opinion is thatin anything that happened at the past is past and so since he still be the man in your life as your husband uyou shouldn’t raise this now

  71. That’s terrible but it’s all in the past now
    I guess it’s a lesson now to others and yourself too
    A man rapes you at first date yet you marry him?
    So weird
    But a good thing you’ve been able to speak out

  72. Hmm someone raped you on first date and you still went ahead to marry him. what do you expect in the marriage

  73. Did he actually rape you before you married him?am surprised…but more so…rape is a punishable act….lets put heads together and end it

  74. The man should be ashamed of himself and stop disturbing the lady. She has already divorce him, so he should stop threatening her life.

  75. Are you for real,you married a beast in a mans form after he raped you on your first date, were you charmed cos I don’t understand?????

  76. That’s a good one fight it don’t allow it to bully you anymore it was such a horrible experience but God is in charge hardluck

  77. Men like that should be fleed from. A man that raped you, beat and treathens you. Staying away is better.

  78. A man raped u on the first date and u went ahead to marry him and after the marriage did not work you are telling us,what do you want us to do

  79. She just have to be careful over that guy
    Some men can be very stupid at times…
    Why will someone forcefully make out with a lady
    That’s very bad

  80. I’m happy you’re speaking up now . Women stand up and leave above your fear of any man trying to destroy you . Keep fighting , don’t let him bring you down or crush your dreams

  81. Firstly, aunty why did you marry a man that raped you on your first, ok you were thinking he will become a saint overnight abi.? You nor try
    Secondly, oga , is it by force?she said she don’t wan to do again na biko leave her alone. Is she the prettiest. Mama please if your son is cursed take him to your pastor for deliverance asap
    .thank you

  82. Experience is the best teacher, you have had the experience so he cannot bully you anymore. Am surprised his mother sopprted him, what a shame. The Lord is your protector madam

  83. nothing more since rape had involved I think they should marry each other then. you should have forget the past.

  84. For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction,after the rape she still accept to be his wife and after revealing the secret his being pompous about it which made the whole issue suspicious to the wife.

  85. If you have never being raped you won’t understand her I ve bin there you are a survivor girl keep up the spirit, release your fears. You are protected ok

  86. If the mother told you that her son was cursed then, you have to believe her maybe that’s the more reason he misbehaved.

  87. Rape on first date, was that your reason for marrying him. Did you even notice the signs & symptoms before you said yes. Am against ladies being treated unfairly and unjustly but at thesame time, your eyes needs to be opened to see pass those sweet words to the actual person he is…

  88. Rape is a serous offence but since you are married to him there’s nothing else you can do now. I pray you enjoy your marriage

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