Being called a ‘bastard’ isn’t an insult, it’s a fact – Dencia

Dencia, the controversial Whitencious boss in a Snapchat post stated that being called a ‘bastard’ isn’t an insult, but a fact.

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Dencia who described herself as the President of the bastard club, disclosed that found out that grandmother wasn’t her mother’s mom after an uncle she took as a brother called her a bastard at 16. She further advised couples not to have kids out of wedlock.

She wrote;

Asking 4 myself, why do people get mad at this word when  it’s actually facts. As the President of the bastard club, y’all need to get out ur feelings. Don’t have kids out of wedlock & bastard kids just take ur B it’s not an insult

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149 Comments

  1. A bastard is a person who doesn’t know their father,
    But such statement can make one depressed to the point of having suicidal thoughts

  2. Its parent fault not admitting their responsibilities on their ward. Weather out of wedlock or not, people should love their kids and handle them with care not frustration

  3. A bastard is not someone that doesn’t know his father. A bastard is someone whose parents are not married

  4. She’s correct. Bastards are for those who don’t have Fathers but it’s still offensive to those who know their father. In fact it’s an offensive word in general.

  5. Don’t call yourself a bastard, the advice is in order, women should stop having children out of wedlock

  6. Must one be referred to as a bastard? It’s no one’s fault to be born out of wedlock. Please it’s an insult to call a person a bastard abeg. How would you feel if you are the one? It’s not actually right.

  7. Very correct. Its actually a fact so please kids that fall into this condition don’t take it as an insult but take it as a means to know that you have to work hard to make out something out of the situation you find yourself.

  8. Whatever the case maybe,you shouldnt call anyone bastard becausr you dont know what warranted the existenve of that child………please whethet wedlock or not,no one should be called a bastard

  9. I hear you, what of those ladies who mistakingly gets pregnant?
    So they should get rid of the baby instead of giving birth to a bastard, is that your advice?
    Bastard or no bastard who ever will make a difference will make..

  10. Is just like calling me mad when I am not mad.. or calling me a barren woman when I have children.. so I dont see why I should be angry

  11. That’s just the fact but people don’t want to face the reality therefore it is regarded as an insult.i agree with her on this one

  12. You may be right but that shouldn’t be used anyhow is just meant for those who don’t know there parents

  13. Lol to you calling you a basterd is a fact. If You have a parent and somebody called u a basterd to me its an insult .

  14. The word bastard to me is an insult because you calling me that I feel that you are actually insulting my personality

  15. But such statement can make one depressed to the point of having suicidal thoughts. But the fact is that people don’t want to face the reality therefore it is regarded as an insult.

  16. Sorry about being called a bastard. No one is a bastard, you have a mother and father save you are yet to know them.

  17. Is just a name for those that did have father that why as a woman you are supose to be legally married so that,the children you will be giving birth to will not be called such names

  18. Hmm being called a bastard is an insults of the the highest order cause that means a son of a thousands father

  19. Been a call a bastard is not a good thing. Not necessary not known your father but what if you don’t take after your father.

  20. Tue best thing is to accept your fate and you’ll enjoy life just like she did not those that hang themselves or jump into the river. Young people should be careful about having kids out of wedlock.

  21. This Dencia girl is the queen of savag reply. but I like her for the fact that she accepted her situation and will not allow anyone use it to hurt her

  22. Yes it not an insult, it named for the children that didn’t no their father that y people call them bastard

  23. No matter what calling someone a bastard shld not be tolerated when you are not the creator of the person.

  24. Calling someone a bastard,to me is an insult when you are actually not a bastard.even if you are,it still remain as an insult

  25. She is right the word bastard mean one withut a mother. But truth be told, it hurts to hear ones self being called that

  26. Well i think it’s an insult despite it been a fact. After all its not their faults that their mother couldn’t label a father to the kids

  27. Its parent fault not admitting their responsibilities on their ward. Weather out of wedlock or not, people should love their kids and handle them with care not frustration

  28. It’s an insult if not well used,,,, when you use it on your elder or anyone who doesn’t have parent complete it makes them feel so bad so it depends on how you used it

  29. Either true or not its totally not child’s fault. And I think Dancia is trying to tell us that its an English word or name given to a person

  30. Even if it sounds true, you don’t throw it to their face. Come to think of it, it’s not their fault they don’t Know their father

  31. Well, having kids out of wedlock isn’t the main issue here but inability to identify the father of the kid.

  32. Nevertheless, it is not right to call someone bastard, whatever the situation may be,because nobody is a bastard.

  33. Experience is what makes people to say what is not reasonable and by the time they proof it,it turns out to be righful.

  34. Yes Dencia is right but the reason people feel insulted when they are called bastards is because it is derogatory and it is used as an abusive word.

  35. Lol,I actually gets your point, marrying a child out of wedlock is not good at all and it may lead to further problems in the family.

  36. I don’t blame her because the way she viewed basterd is different.
    Here in Africa, try it
    And call someone basterd
    That day you may loose your head.
    Been called basterd is bad

  37. She is a bastard indeed. But however she looks at it, his self-acclaimed president should know that it is an insult to call one a bastard.

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