ACP Abayomi Shogunle who reacted to the controversial statement made by TVC presenter, Morayo Afolabi-Brown, has shared his list which shows class of married men that should never bathe their daughters.
According to ACP Abayomi Shogunle, the class of married men on his list are usually the ones that molest their daughters. He wrote;
Here is my take on ”I trust my husband but I wouldn’t take chances and have him bathe my daughter” See the statement as an advice if your husband is one of;
Having drug/alcohol problem,
A wife beater,
Incest in his family,
Unemployed/depends on you,
You can’t proudly tell people his job (illegal activities),
He complains of sexual dissatisfaction,
Fond of watching porn,
Has mental disorder.
Above characteristics are from cases I’ve seen in Nigeria. Those that allow, ask the little girl “Show me how daddy baths you”.
Recall that we reported that Morayo and her other colleagues were having a discussion on rape viz-a-viz, the relationship between father and daughter and if boundaries should be set in this kind of relationship.
“I actually trust my husband but I’m just being careful because people that have experienced this kind of situation, also trusted their husbands and yet, it happened”,she said.