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A woman needs to be spoiled by a man – Sonia Ogbonna

Sonia LaReina whose marriage to IK Ogbonna is rumoured to have collapsed, has taken to her Instagram page to write that women need to be spoiled by a man.

A Woman still needs to be spoiled by a man - Sonia Ogbonna lailasnews


Sonia Ogbonna while sharing an interesting image of a ‘feminist jet’ speeding at the sight of ‘equal rights,’ but turning back at the sight of ‘equal responsibilities,’ shared her view on feminism. She wrote;

Jokers. Lol but y’all dont wanna talk about you NEEDING a woman to step up and take a part of “MALE RESPONSIBILITIES” and participate in hustle EQUALY (if not even more) as men do {cuz nowadays one person making bread can’t feed/sustain the whole family most of the time -meaning men partly failed in fulfilling their fundamental duty-*sorry*notSorry* fact only } or cuz you don’t want a babe who “just sits her ass at home and does nothing”(besides cooking,cleaning,raising kids,taking care of the whole home including you and maybe your parents too)*yuck unattractive* .

You want her to hold you down when times get hard but she must do it with her head down & she can’t just have a mind on her own when it comes to making decisions as she must “submit to u and show respect” so someone won’t feel a less of a man. But then, still expect her to carry on with ALL THE DOMESTIC & NON DOMESTIC DUTIES the very same way your great grandmother from the village did.

Oh wow! Otherwise we judge- is she really a “wife material” ? Bye! I’m not a bitter lady and I love and respect men (I’m raising one duhh) but don’t ever neglect the fact that A LOT is expected from a woman in this 21st century (it’s not even realistic) and very little credit is given in return, (just childbirth & pregnancy alone-is it beans?lol) and then ,when we stand for ourselves- “feminists this ,feminists that”.

We are indeed super humans. And im so sad when I see a fellow woman who is not aware how important is for us to support each other. And let me tell you straight up- I dont care how much money u make and how independent you are sis, or how strong you are to stand for yourself-you still deserve to be SPOILED and treated like a lady,a Queen that you are by any man who wants to tap into you blessings ,time and space.. Argue with ya whaaaat? 📱you already know😜 All Love 💕

184 Comments

  1. Exactly dear,, seriously every woman need man in her life. To treat u like queen,, ladies should take note thats for those independent nd classic ladies,, so men bear it in mind treat us wella

  2. Well said.Women needs to be spoilt by their men no matter how much she has,she just still needs to be spoilt.

  3. God created a woman as helper to the man, the responsibility of a family is not only meant for man, women should share the responsibility with the man so that both can build their home

  4. Yeah she is right women always want good treatment from we the men and im happy im giving exactly that to my queen.

  5. This na gbenge… All man what to spoil woman but then there’s no money he can’t achieve is aim with that

  6. Is good to spoil your woman but is more better if the woman too is a Woking class Lady because and woman that don’t have anything doing even if the man spend all his money on u it will be enough

  7. Well said dear, the issue of some women not working is lack of trust from the man. He believed the wife might cheat by working in a public office.

  8. The woman is meant to support the man to make the union sweet, besides you are right that all women should be treated as a queen as far as she deserves it

  9. I do agree with Sonia
    Owing to the responsibilities women take up these days
    They are truly super humans but that’s for a very few because most are parasitic
    It’s beautiful when a responsible man got a boss lady
    You should spoil her lest you loose her

  10. Women manage your guy the way he is oo if he can’t spoil you understand because now the number of Benz is increasing and the number of girls is decreasing

  11. That’s true but not in all cases because we woman can be so rude sometimes to our husband which they won’t be able to correct us again

  12. Men are more responsible when it’s comes to breadwinning… But women needs to support. That is why you are called a helpmeet.

  13. I agree with that to an extent, it all depends on both parties, if the woman is very respectful and we’ll behaved there is every tendency to Earn alot of respect and pampering from the man but the reverse is the case if her attitude towards male folks is bad

  14. Well at some point i say u re right , women are created from man so they actually need a man but there are times when when women dont need any man

  15. This is so true!!!! Men have to take good care of their women but on this feminism issues here and there I have to say that women don’t suppose to rub shoulders with men because we women are made to be under our men but not as slaves but we have to always respect our men at all times and also our men ought to respect their women too.

  16. Well said Sonia,women should be respected and pampered by men,not regarded as a piece of furniture in the house

  17. Nice fact pointed out. Women represents a lot in the family and they really deserve to be pampered

  18. I agree and at the same time I don’t . It’s not all girls tht worth such a treatment but some are just the best

  19. Yea that’s true, every woman needs to be spoilt with money, by man. but of in the situation were the has no money.

  20. When a woman is being spoiled by the man, it’s a good thing, very nice, this is what all women crave for

  21. Well spoken…Ik Ogbonna wife is so cute, beautiful woman! Thank you for this lovely piece from you…is not easy in our country though…we will get there.and take our rightful place..

  22. Well spoken! I hope men n some women that are ignorant out there will now understand how important we are in the society after reading This, they shld know their worth!Ik Ogbonna wife is so cute, beautiful woman! Thank you for this lovely piece from you…is not easy in our country though…we will get there.and take our rightful place..

  23. It is true woman need to be spoiled by her man it will even make the feeling stronger not just ordinary man.

  24. Wow so brilliant I lobe this write up like kilode woman should support their fellow woman,also our husband her not left out to over pampering us because we deserve more no matter the amount we have we new a super treat most times

  25. You are on point, women by nature always seek approval, so no matter how much you have in your bank account, you still need to be pampered.

  26. Sonia Ogbonna, is right in her opinion. I also believe in her philosophy of spoiling a lady. Every man must spoil his woman.

  27. Hmmm! The wahala that this feminism will cause nor be here o.I agree that women should be treated right though.

  28. Well spoken! I hope men n some women that are ignorant out there will now understand how important we are in the society after reading This, they shld know their worth!Ik Ogbonna wife is so cute, beautiful woman! Thank you for this lovely piece from you…is not easy in our country though…we will get there.and take our rightful place.

  29. Very well said, women needs to be pampered but it shouldn’t get to our head. Don’t pass your boundaries. lolsss

  30. Once a woman is treated well by a man,he gets her full support and cooperation, women love men that give them attention and care they need,men learn from this

  31. really i have agreed with all what she have said nowadays things are going the opposite way they supposed to be and god see us through.

  32. Treating your woman right is good, but over spoiling her is something else, she will definitely miss use the opportunity

  33. Go Sonia. I love you. We need to carry the family along not just doing wife material whatever. We must know how to fish like the men do. But despite that, a man need to spoil us, yeah, cos pregnancy and child bearing no b beans

  34. I agree that a woman needs to be spoiled by a man but what about when the woman starts taking him for granted?

  35. I am sooo with you Sonia!! Sometimes, we need to have days off these duties, put our feet up with a glass of wine in one hand and a masseur on our shoulders.

  36. Sonia has just said it all,,a woman need to be treated like a queen even if she still support s the man financially.

  37. I love this lady!
    I love this lady!
    And I’ll keep loving her!
    She just made a WHOLE lot of sense here.
    Ride on girl, you’ve gat it all in control.

  38. Yess she is right but pray not to fall in the hand of GBoys those people can spoil and as well do and undo.

  39. Yes.All what she said is true.The men want to be assisted financially, but can’t help their women do any chores .not evena nice treat.yuck

  40. Yes women needs man their lives woman need to be taken care by man no matter what it takes.money or not money woman need to be spoiled by man.So that is the truth about it

  41. I agree with you partially but men can’t work off their ass to provide for you. sometimes, you will help out

  42. You are saying the truth but thheir are some special cases. Women should understand this but men must understand their responsibilities and carry them all.

  43. Well said! Men need to be told, ladies also need to be spoiled, pampered and cared for. It takes two to tangle

  44. Its good that a woman be treated like a queen by her man, but the issue of money is for both parties you too can spoil your man if you have its balances the love

  45. Women are wonderful especially when they love you or you have money.. if they don’t want you… no matter what you do it will not move them.

  46. It’s good for a man to takkia f his woman but even d bible says he created a woman as an help mate and not a liability….

  47. It’s good for a man to takkia f woman but even d bible says he created a woman as an help mate and not a liability….women grow sense from any dimension it pays

  48. This is 21st century, gender roles is undergoing rapid change. You are right about how women do more than just
    Keep the home now. Mutual respect and selflessness is what works in marriages now.

  49. Nonsense…..if u like treat a woman right from Genesis to revelation the one dat will cheat and disappoint u will still do it without thinking twice

  50. U got it all baby, girls deserve the best from guys who want to share their glory them because they are carefully and wonderfully made.

  51. I agree with her on her terminal reason, women deserves the best, imagine u give her a house nd she gives u a home, that’s a good example of duties, however her reasons re right

  52. That’s true lady..men needs ladies and ladies also needs men we all need someone that will take card of us in our own special way. You’ve gat the thumb finger.

  53. Amazing discuss. It takes two to tangle. A word is enough for the wise. The grave was not dug that it will be filled with a dead body, never. There is therefore the need for understanding and cooperation.

  54. Exactly you are right my dear, some of our cultures does not deserve or does not permit us to live that way ,men are treating women the way they want because of culture ,the only value women outside the country not here in Nigeria

  55. I agree that a woman should be pampered but the man is still the head of the house. A woman should never strive to take the place of the man cos God created them to fulfill certain responsibility while the woman is a helper, to help the man fulfill his Divine destiny.

  56. Well said.Women needs to be spoilt by their men no matter how much she has,she just still needs to be spoilt,depending on how the behave.

  57. Comment*yea that true a woman needs to be spoilt by her man even if the gift are not expensive but just try your best as a man

  58. Seriously we need to be treated like egg,by so doing you see your woman being so loyal and submissive to you

  59. True talk,all this new breed called men don’t know how to care for a lady.sex is all they think that keep their lady happy.

  60. Sonia. I love you. We need to carry the family along not just doing wife material whatever. We must know how to fish like the men do. But despite that, a man need to spoil us, yeah, cos pregnancy and child bearing no b beans

  61. Yes, sure, women are meant to be tested like a queen by their man but let’s not forget that men need to be treated as a king also by their woman

  62. Seriously they need to be treated like eggs, by so doing you see your woman being so loyal and submissive to you. They will respect you.

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